I was talking with a good friend the other night, and what I had to say surprised hir, so I thought it worth writing here.

In my experience, if...

1 - Someone wants to be doing doing X activity with hir partner, especially some sort of sexual activity

and

2 - Said partner is not doing X activity with hir

and

3 - Said partner IS doing X activity with someone else

This will almost without exception lead to jealousy and hard feelings.

What do you think? Does this match YOUR experience, of yourself and those around you?

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